Here some words I wanna share at here. Just so I can read again and again to remind me that I deserve more than I have to go through now.
"If you think that you're worthless, think again honey 'cause you're not. Never settle for less than what you deserve. Never run back to what broke you and never ever beg for someone to stay in your life. If they leave, let them. 'Cause what's meant for you will always find its way back to you.
You can't force someone to love you, you can't force someone to feel the same way for you and it's okay. You broke up for a reason so never beg someone to stay in your life 'cause if they want to they won't leave you in the first place. If he truly loves you, he'll find a way to stay even though there are million reasons to walk away.
Relationships shouldn't make you feel broken, beaten, and exhausted. If they do, you’re going to have no energy, no self-esteem, no will to be all you can be, and this isn't what relationships are about. If this resonates with you, maybe it’s time to wave the white flag and move on to avoid further damage.
Not all relationships are built to last, no matter how badly you wish they would. Would you prefer to stay in a relationship that fills your heart with pain or find a new relationship that fills your heart with love and joy? When you learn to value yourself, you will attract people who know your worth and avoid people who want to chip away at your happiness.
We deserve a person who will love us unconditionally, even at our worst. A person who wants nothing but to see our genuine smile. Someone who will listen to our complaints, rants, plans and dreams. Someone who wants nothing but the best for us. If you aren't being treated like you are an amazing and worthy person, something is wrong. You are one amazing, beautiful and peculiar person. If you are with someone who fails to see these in you, then you are settling for less than you deserve. And you should stop. I repeat. YOU SHOULD STOP.
I know it's hard. It's motherfucking hard. You keep on blaming yourself. You keep on asking where did you go wrong. You keep on making excuses and justifications. You tell yourself to try harder and change for the better because he might end up appreciating you, and that maybe he'll see how wonderful you are again. But honey, no. He won't. Please don't lose yourself loving someone so much. Do not lose yourself trying to please someone else. Because someone out there will accept you not only for who you are but will also love you with all your flaws and imperfections. Yes, you love that person so much. You had so much memories with him, You had your best and worst days with him. You care about him a lot. But the question is, does he still feel the same for you? If you feel like you're being let down and not being cared just as much, why settle for that? Again, you should stop. Think about yourself. You deserve better than that.
Just cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. Chin up, princess and pick up your tiara. You have so much more to experience. There's so much more to life than that. Remember, know your worth and never ever settle for less than you deserve."
- 💪 (via: Preach It)
